GO BETTER WITH EVERYONE - 12 COMMANDMENTS

1. Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself the following 3 questions:
a)  Is it true?
b)  Is it kind?
c)  Is it necessary?
2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully at any cost.
3. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging.
4. Refuse to talk negatively about others; don’t gossip and don’t listen to gossip.
5. Have a forgiving view of people, Believe that most people are doing the best they can.
6. Keep an open mind; discuss, but don’t argue,
  (Think whether,  is it possible to disagree without being disagreeable)
7. Forget about counting to 10. Count to 1000 before doing or saying anything   that could make matters worse.
8. Let your virtues speak for themselves.
9. If someone criticizes you, see if there is any Truth in what he is saying; if so, make changes or amend yourselves; if there is no truth in the criticism just ignore it and so that no one will believe the negative remark.
10. Cultivate your sense of humour; laughter is the shortest distance between two people.
11. Do not seek  so much to be consoled, as to console; do not seek so much to be understood, as to understand; do not seek so much to be loved as to love.
12. I pray that all of us will keep these points in mind and the principles behind them so that we can continuously improve our personal relations with others wherever we are.

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